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I feel sick

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Hoolajerry · 20/03/2020 03:18

My dh is an IT contracter. His contract was due to be extended at the end of this month. This had already been agreed but now with everything going on they have asked him to take a "holiday" until they know what is going happen. We knew there is always a risk that he will be asked to leave so we have some reserves. We can carry on as normal for 3 months or we can cut everything right back and "survive" for about 8 months. But longer than that and we're screwed. My children's lives are about to change massively. I have started to cull all unnecessary expenses: milkman, cleaner, kids activities etc as we have literally no idea how this will pan out. It's not like there will be other work out there available , he already tried a couple of places and all of them had withdrawn the jobs they advertised.
I work part-time but have requested to go full-time although the additional salary will only add one days equivalent of his wage to our monthly income. I also work somewhere where there is no certainty that we'll be allowed to continue. We can't remote work so if we get asked to leave I'm not sure how/if my wages will get covered. The dc will be off now for the foreseeable and dh will be working from home and then taking care of them after March in a reversal of our normal roles.
I can't compute all of this. Our worst case scenario is that we lose our house and at the end of the day that isnt that bad. I know we'll survive. We have friends and family who won't see us go homeless. I just hate the uncertainty and the complete inability to control our own circumstances. Anyone else facing this?

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Kalim8 · 20/03/2020 06:50

It's unbelievably shit, are you eligible for eg mortgage repayment holiday?
I empathise with the feeling of not having control, as if everything prior to this was some cruel illusion.
I'm trying to keep in mind that really the only thing we ever have control over is ourselves/ how we react.
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SoloMummy · 20/03/2020 07:51

If you can last 8months by cutting things, that seems the logical approach.
At that point hopefully things will be in recovery mode come months 5-6.
No point stressing further than that atm.

AnotherEmma · 20/03/2020 08:00
Flowers See if he is eligible for new-style JSA (not much but every little helps) and see if you can get a mortgage holiday.
TorysSuckRevokeArticle50 · 20/03/2020 08:05

Has he looked for any IT contract work to fill the gap? Civil service have listed loads of It roles and IT functions that are considered essential to running are classified as key worker roles under the new guidance published last night. He may find with so many companies moving to home working and having to radically change existing infrastructure that there are quite a few jobs out there.

www.civilservicejobs.service.gov.uk/csr/index.cgi?SID=cGFnZWNsYXNzPUpvYnMmcGFnZWFjdGlvbj1zZWFyY2hieWNvbnRleHRpZCZ1c2Vyc2VhcmNoY29udGV4dD05NjYxMTIyNyZrZXk9NTA3MDAwMCZyZXFzaWc9MTU4NDY5MTMxNy1kNGE0Y2FhY2M1Yjg4Nzc4YmU5MTk2NDYzOWRjMmU0NWMxNjc0ZWZi

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