I have a ds9. My exh and I split custody 40/60 to him.
Ds developed a dry cough on Sunday. Exh has sent him into school on Monday and today without me knowing, as they are his days. Since he's been with me he has coughed a lot, his temp is 37.0.
Exh discussed what we'd do if the schools closed, deciding that we'd each keep ds one week at a time, swapping every Wednesday.
I told exh that I will not be sending ds to school, and I will keep him until next Wednesday as previously agreed, then he can have him the week after.
As usual, exh is going mad, demanding I send ds to school as he's adamant that because he doesn't have a raging temperature, that it cannot be coronavirus. He's demanding I bring ds back to his tomorrow evening as usual, then our usual agreement would be he has Thursday and I have Friday to Sunday.
AIBU by telling him to stick it and he'll get ds on Wednesday? I hesitate because he's the type of person who, when he feels wronged, will try to destroy me using ds. I worry he'll keep him for weeks out of spite when I send him back on Wednesday.
What should I do?