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Have I been blocked on Whatsapp?

23 replies

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 16:23

Contact as normal until Wednesday night.
After that, my messages only had 1 tick. His profile picture was still visible and it said he as "last seen Wed".
When I woke up this morning, my messages had 2 blue ticks but his profile pic and "last seen" were gone.
When I put his phone number into my friend's phone, she can see his profile pic and "last seen".

Hit me with it so I can grieve and move on :-(
Thanks

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aibutohavethisusername · 16/03/2020 16:25

Sadly it sounds like this. Sending virtual hugs and chocolate.

MrsRabbitsCleaner · 16/03/2020 16:25

It does sound like it sorry OP Daffodil

Voxx · 16/03/2020 16:27

Yes. That’s what happens when someone blocks you. You can no longer see their profile picture or their ‘last seen’.

TheBrokenFuse · 16/03/2020 16:28

Yeah you have been blocked sorry. Flowers

gamerchick · 16/03/2020 16:30

That's so nasty man. At least say that you want to be left alone now please before doing it. Just blocking out the blue is a cunts trick.

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 16:31

Genuinely why does someone do that? Strings you along and then ditches you out of the blue? The last message he sent was that he was going into a meeting and had a kiss on it. I even spoke to him on the phone so I know he is a real human if nothing else.

I had been really cheerful these last 3 weeks - we were meant to be meeting this week.

Thanks for the support.

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gamerchick · 16/03/2020 16:33

I'm sorry OP. If he pops back up and tries to pick up where he left off. Please have the strength to tell him to piss off.

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 16:36

I will do, thanks

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KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 16:40

He didn't ask me for money and there were no sexy pics or anything. Struggling to see what he got out of it. Most of it was just mundane chat. So not a classic scam anyway.

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neverornow · 16/03/2020 16:41

Sorry OP! What a dick!

whatareyoucooking · 16/03/2020 16:56

You need to block him now. Because when he's bored and wants entertaining by you again he may just pop up.

It's hard OP I've been there. But blocking him yourself makes you feel like you have a teeeeny bit of power back WineCake

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 17:04

Thanks everyone. I can honestly say I would never be so cruel to someone. I feel like an idiot of course, for getting my hopes up! It was so utterly convincing. No wonder people get fooled.

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CtrlU · 16/03/2020 17:06

Yea, he blocked you. Hopefully you can find someone who respects you more in real life x

Good luck op xxx

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 17:08

Thanks.

WHY do they do this?! Did he honestly have a girlfriend? It's so hard to move on when you don't know why.

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Bluewater1 · 16/03/2020 17:19

So sorry OP Flowers

BunnytheBee · 16/03/2020 17:24

He obviously lacks social skills and you can do better

MyuMe · 16/03/2020 17:27

You could send one more message to see if it goes through

Had you met?

MagnoliaJustice · 16/03/2020 17:31

I wouldn't waste any more time trying to work out why he blocked you. Maybe he's not single and his significant other found the WhatsApp conversation between you. Maybe he's got a few women he chats to and he decided to concentrate on just one or two. Maybe he's just a complete bellend and you are well rid. Don't take it personally.

Either way, life is short, move on and find yourself someone who is as fabulous as you are.

fantasmasgoria1 · 16/03/2020 17:34

What a complete idiot and a coward. Just blocking someone with no explanation is arsehole behaviour.

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 18:37

Thanks everyone. No, we hadn't met yet.

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amusedbush · 16/03/2020 19:07

Usually when ghosting like this happens it’s because the person is talking to a few different men/women and then they pick the one they like best. This has happened to me before, then when their other fling doesn’t work out they message out of the blue as if nothing happened Hmm

KenzoBaby · 16/03/2020 20:38

Thanks amused. I'm taking being blocked as a pretty clear sign I'm dumped, so I won't allow myself to be picked back up again!

It makes me feel like such a pathetic person - trying to make excused in my head like "oh maybe his mate has blocked me as a prank". When I'm mostly a rational sensible person but this has thrown me right off my perch.

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amusedbush · 16/03/2020 20:40

I’m sorry, it’s such a shitty feeling Sad

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