I've just deleted my first draft of this post as it was incredibly long and rambling when it really didn't need to be so I'll start again.
I have an appt in 9 days where I'm praying they will book me in for prolapse surgery as I've been left with life altering birth Injuries. They've been reluctant to do surgery as I am only 30 and the surgery lasts about 10 years so will need re doing. Also, because I might add to my family - but I've decided I'm happy with 1 child.
Have been advised the only thing that could help was to keep up my physio for the stress incontinence and try and lose some weight - ideally be in a healthy BMI. I've worked really hard and lost 5st so far. 2 weeks ago I weighed in at 14.6. My target was to be at around 13.12 for the appointment as luckily, I'm very tall so for a healthy BMI, I need to be 12.12 albeit the top end of a healthy BMI Then, at the appointment I can say "Look, my birth injuries are so much worse than last time. They're getting worse everyday. I've lost a lot of weight like you advised. I'm only 1 stone over weight now, please book me in for surgery"
My problem - last weekend I had emergency gallbladder removal surguy (I really am falling apart) and since then I've put on 9lbs. Today I weigh 15.1. A lot of it will be excess fluid from IVs and things but also because I've been eating like a pig the last few days.
I intend to crash diet as a 1 off for a week in an attempt to lose 1st. Please can you help? I'm not sure where to start and I don't have the time to experiment in what might work for me. I need a guaranteed weight loss. Have you lost a significant amount of weight in a very small amount of time? I'm unable to exercise. Anything more than a gentle dog work turns my insides into outsides so it needs to be diet alone.
I fully intend to go back to healthy eating and shift this last 2 stone in a healthy way after the appointment and fully aware this is a short term, quick fix and I'll gain after the appointment when I return to normal eating. But I have to do this. This has been a 2 year battle and I can't miss this opportunity at getting my life back. I can't even have a wee anymore without holding myself and essentially pushing my bladder back in. It's humiliating and dehumanising.
Damn. Still a long and rambling OP. But I needed to get it all out. Please do comment, I'd love for this to carry on for the week as a bit of support throughout.