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IanHislopForPm · 13/03/2020 03:26

I need advice with regards to what to do at a job interview.

Last year I had a massive mental health break down caused by the still birth of my daughter and it culminated in a period of time in a psychiatric hospital I also was diagnosed with crohns last year and needed a lot of treatment. I am getting better and I'm looking to return to work.

I am a nurse in the NHS and the year I was employed in my previous role I spent most of it off sick. I decided to quit in October and it actually helped hugely! I finally feel well enough now to go back to work and I've got 4 interviews next week :) go me!

However.. my Bradford score from previous job probably doesn't bare thinking about, I know I need to address it at interview or risk the job offer being revoked when they get my references back. I don't how to answer the question 'why did you leave your last position'

It was a combination of poorly managed Crohn's disease, 4 miscarriages and a still birth, I know that technically my pregnancy related sickness can't count against me, and I also know that this position I want will be bloody brilliant for me. I also have a lot of support at home now and a psychiatrist and therapist I see once a week.

What I'm trying to say is I have help I didn't have before, I'm being treated properly for my Crohn's disease and I have coping mechanisms for my mental health so I can try and head off any crisis before it happens.

I am also currently very early on in a pregnancy, but as that has never lasted more than 8 weeks apart from my daughter who was born at 23 weeks. I don't really want to tell them. Do I have to?

Thank you!

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IanHislopForPm · 13/03/2020 07:34

Anyone?

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Itsashame · 13/03/2020 08:09

No you absolutely don’t have to tell them that you’re pregnant.

Fingerbobs · 13/03/2020 08:28

Can you say something like I was going through a particularly difficult combination of health and personal circumstances and decided to focus on getting properly well. I took time to do that and now have the support I need to do this job, where I can put my skills and experience to best use.’ That is too long and you would probably want to take a couple of breaths Smile but that kind of thing. Good luck, you have been through an awful time and I hope it goes well. Also no, absolutely no need to talk about pregnancy, and I am so sorry for your losses Flowers

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IanHislopForPm · 13/03/2020 11:45

Thank you. Maybe I'll just be honest

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