How to reach out?

[BlueJeansOn]

I have made a new friend who has been going through an exceptionally hard time for the last few months. When I say an exceptionally hard time, I mean by most people's standards.

My wisdom, for want of a better word, tells me that they need people to reach out to them more. I have reached out, gently, though they seemed to withdraw when I did. I'm thinking this is down to pride and or of letting anyone into the rawness of it all, and not down to me.

Any sage advice out there on how to help a gentle soul navigate some of the hardest times of their life?

Sorry the post is a bit vague, but feel it is
only right it is.

Thanks for reading.

Give them time

If you can help in a practical way maybe suggest that? A lot of people find it difficult to ask/accept help albeit it emotional support, physical help etc

I personally absolutely hate asking for help and if I am asking I am in dire need

Maybe just be more available to them? Hard to say without the details but they may not even Want any help?