I’ve got dual NZ and British citizenships and have lived in both places. My daughter was born in the UK and is being educated in NZ.
It’s true we do have poverty, racism, and some of our housing stock is not up to the standard it should be. But every country has issues with these. Perhaps it is more visible here or do people come to NZ with this idea that it is a paradise?
We have earthquakes and volcanoes. Not a lot we will ever be able to do about them.
We are a long way from anywhere, which is a downside definitely, but I’m not sure why you’d be disappointed at that unless you’d never studied New Zealand’s geographic location on a map. A lot of younger people travel to the UK so they can travel, it’s a fact of life.
Yes, we don’t have a Oxford or Cambridge here. But I didn’t find my tertiary education lacking in the UK when I was working alongside counterparts with education from these institutions. In fact, I sometimes found I’d had a much broader education and was given more responsibility early in my career than in the UK. There are some advantages to a small population.
I live in Wellington, which offers me a great quality of life. I own a small house, a block and a half from the beach. It’s a 40 minute commute into the CBD.
School wise, there isn’t the stress of your “summer born son” starting school at just 4. Children start at 5, but don’t have to be enrolled until 6.
There is no SAT pressure at primary school.
There is no pressure around school applications and no 4+, 7+, 11+ or 13+.
No stressful University clearing process.
She is part of her school’s Kapahaka performance group and her Te Reo is way better than mine. Their current inquiry (social study and science) unit at school is “Who I am”. Family, culture, religion is all wrapped up in this, but it is also important because in Te Ao Māori knowing your whakapapa is really important.
This weekend if it’s sunny we will wander down to the beach, she will play with the local kids (who ever is around) and jump off the wharf into the sea. We will probably cycle together to a local café (an independently owned) for a coffee at some point. We may have amazing fish and chips for dinner.
I think that some people are more adaptable than others when it comes to moving countries and experiencing different things. There were a lot of things in the UK that I found confusing, time consuming and overly complicated. Like getting an NI number for example.