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What do you do if you don’t watch tv?

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FestiveBake · 22/02/2020 20:48

Ideas please?

I’m bored rigid with most of the tv that’s on. I don’t seem to enjoy the stuff on Netflix that other people enjoy. I can’t think of any recommendations I’ve had that I’ve really liked.

I have been reading lots but other than reading, I’m at a bit of a loose end in the evening. No transport so can’t go out.

Hit me with your ideas of what I can do please! (Even if it’s new recs for tv)
Thank you!

OP posts:
FOTTFSOFTFOASM · 22/02/2020 22:45

@Merename

It's hard to describe it, really. They are older now, and it just wasn't part of their/our lives when they were small. There was nothing planned or ideological about it - it just never occurred to me to watch TV either with or without them.

We did, however, have a video player (sic), and a few favourite videos which I found in charity shops (Teletubbies, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella). I sometimes used to put them on if it was such a foul day that we couldn't go out for a walk and I needed to fill an hour (the days used to feel very, very long sometimes when they were little).

I think one thing that made it relatively easy was that my children were small before screens became ubiquitous. They just weren't a thing, either large or small. I know it's not that long ago, but there were no iPads, smartphones etc. So we went for very long and slow walks, took them swimming, went to the park, went to the library, and I read to them and played endlessly with them. I also had a lot of friends with babies and toddlers, so we used to hang around in one another's kitchens while the children played (once they were pre-school sort of age). Again, there were no screens, so it was just playing and talking. I also used to get them to "help" me with housework, shopping etc. Not least as it filled the time!

I would love to say I would do the same if I had small children now, and I probably would - but I think it would be much harder. Partly because screens are so commonplace, but also because there's probably more on TV now, and they can also watch via the internet/Youtube etc.

I would also say that my lack of a TV (I don't have a device or a smartphone either) hasn't prevented my teenagers from discovering TV/screens. The younger one (nearly 16) watches crap on TV endlessly. The older one had a tedious year-long gaming phase, but that has fortunately died the death, and he spends his spare time doing pretty much the same things as I do (though not the boring domestic stuff, unfortunately Grin).

Branster · 22/02/2020 22:56

Watch Documentaries instead of films/series on tv
Face and hair mask, pedicure, manicure and everything in between would take care of a couple of hours whilst you listed to podcasts and drink herbal tea.
Tidy up the drawer of shame (every house has at least one of those).
Clear your wardrobe of items you no longer need.
Bake something nice or Batch cook for the freezer.
Fix small things you don’t get around to doing (loose buttons on a jacket, take in a dress, fix a broken door handle that sort of thing)
When I have an evening on my own and don’t go anywhere, half of the time I end up working as the house is clean and quiet and I find it quite productive.

Stuckupsnob · 22/02/2020 23:09

Spend a lot of time in the gym, it’s more the social side of it for me.
Learning Portuguese
Baking
Watching films
Ironing

Merename · 23/02/2020 09:41

Thanks @FOTTFSOFTFOASM, really interesting to hear. We got rid of telly about 10yrs ago when feeling like OP, that it was just rubbish, and gradually realised we weren’t watching, just putting on for sake of it. With kids tho I am a bit ideological I suppose, in that I don’t want them exposed to lots of advertising telling them what they need or how they should be. DD1 does watch something most days tho, and will play a game on my phone sometimes, so it’s defo part of life but we don’t really want tablets etc anytime soon. I just wonder how that wish is compatible with modern life and using them at school etc. I know we’ll be strict about access to social media as I worry about the impact, but at the same time worry about them feeling different to friends. I don’t want them never to have screens but I hope by keeping them minimal early on that it may just not be a huge focus, like you’ve said. Thanks.

Sorry to hijack, OP! What did you get up to last night?!

johnwayneisbigleggy · 23/02/2020 09:43

Read, crochet, music, internet, chat with friends or family online

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