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If you found a gift that you gave in the charity shop would you buy it again and take it to your mums house?

107 replies

GozillasZit · 17/02/2020 17:33

If you knew For sure as you’d “inscribed” something under it Grin

Suggestions please

LH of course !

OP posts:
mnahmnah · 17/02/2020 19:41

*chicken! Not chucked

Twillow · 17/02/2020 19:47

Of course not. You can't force people to like the things you give them, or be upset about it if they don't (as long as they haven't been rude and SAID they didn't like it!) If you find out they didn't like it or want it any more, the polite thing to do is to pretend not to be aware of it. Giving something to a charity shop, in a way, suggests they still think it has some value to someone, otherwise it would be in the bin!

AliceDownARabbitHole · 17/02/2020 19:49

Definitely buy it back and sneak it in 😂

Thescrewinthetuna · 17/02/2020 19:55

The thing on Charity Shop Shit that may or may not be what the OP is talking about

If you found a gift that you gave in the charity shop would you buy it again and take it to your mums house?
TabbyMctatTheBuskersCat · 17/02/2020 19:56

@Lordfrontpaw was it an RSPCA charity shop by any chance? The one near me had the creepiest doll ever in its window for months until DD got MIL to buy it for her, it stands opposite her bedroom door staring at me.

MissEliza · 17/02/2020 20:00

Please buy it and sneak it back in!

74NewStreet · 17/02/2020 20:01

If the object really is the one Thescrewinthetuna posted a picture of, op needs to buy her mum roses and diamonds for keeping that on display for 25 years Shock
Not the bloody yoke back again.

shiningstar2 · 17/02/2020 20:09

I, and I'm sure some others are now desperate to know what this amazing item is op. Also a bit worried in case I've bought the same for my mum and she is desperately hankering to off load it to the charity shop Grin

BiBiBirdie · 17/02/2020 20:12

I was about to say someone asked the same on the Charity Shop Shit group

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 17/02/2020 20:29

Please tell us what it is! And another vote for Flamingos idea.

TwoHeadedYellowBelliedHoleDig · 17/02/2020 20:40

dustibooks mnahmnah Nope. It is a framed chicken made from pieces of felt and embroidery thread wrapped around nails, with some cross stitch. It is very special. I can't think who has it now, but it didn't come back my way this Christmas and that's what's important Grin

Jezebel101 · 17/02/2020 20:42

I would definitely buy it and regift it to her. Possibly with a boomerang.

Because I'm a passive aggressive bitch, and that's how I roll.

Usesomecaution · 17/02/2020 20:46

Only if I wanted to be unkind. Or was sure my mum understood the joke.

onaplanetthatsevolving · 17/02/2020 20:52

If you think she'd laugh I'd definitely buy it for her. Do a little tag for it saying "I was lonely and wanted to go back home." My mother would do this, and would also laugh if I bought it for her again.

MashedPotatoBrainz · 17/02/2020 21:13

I did this but gave it to someone else. My sister kept asking me to crochet a blanket for her to go over a double bed. I did it in the end, to her pattern and the colours she picked out. I'm not a fast crocheter so it took months and months of work, working on it every evening and cost a bonb in wool. A few weeks after giving it to her I found it in a charity shop in the town she lives in.

longtompot · 17/02/2020 21:21

@MashedPotatoBrainz I would have been gutted had that happened to me. I crochet and know how much work goes into even the simplest looking item. Did you say anything?

MulticolourMophead · 17/02/2020 21:27

But yes I think it would be a good joke to buy it back and hide it somewhere in your Mum's house - possibly with a note attached saying 'you can't get rid of me that easily'

I like this idea.

TARSCOUT · 17/02/2020 21:27

Baaaaaa! Rtft it is a book, it hasn't been on the mantelpiece or on display it is a book! My DM would be amused if I bought it back for her. Go on, do it !!

MashedPotatoBrainz · 17/02/2020 21:31

MashedPotatoBrainz I would have been gutted had that happened to me. I crochet and know how much work goes into even the simplest looking item. Did you say anything?

No I didn't. I backed off completely and have made no effort with her since. Last time I spoke to her was when I gave it to her 7 years ago.

LuluJakey1 · 17/02/2020 21:33

I would buy it and wrap it up and give it to her (straight-faced) as a pretend gift for Mother's Day - but have her a proper present too. My mam would have loved that!

74NewStreet · 17/02/2020 21:35

I have rtfs, TARSCOUT, where does op say it’s a book?

74NewStreet · 17/02/2020 21:38

My Mam would have loved that Confused. Are you sure about that?
Jesus, I hope nobody has the bright idea of regifting my charity shop tat back to me and expecting me to find it entertaining! If I want it I don’t charity shop it in the first place. What exactly is funny about this?

SunshineAvenue · 17/02/2020 21:47

Funny! that would be hilarious in a sitcom but in real life probably not, I haven't got the balls

LuckyAmy1986 · 17/02/2020 21:49

It really depends on if she would find it funny or whether she would be really embarrassed and upset?

RightOnTheEdge · 17/02/2020 22:05

Baaaaaa! Rtft it is a book, it hasn't been on the mantelpiece or on display it is a book!
Am I reading the wrong thread?
Where does it say anything about a book? Confused

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