Exactly as the title suggests. All of these posts about being kind and asking for help. What if help dosnt come. I reached out in November and was put in touch with talking changes by my GP. I had my initial consultation via telephone and was told I would be put on a waiting list. It's nearly March and I'm still waiting. To put this in to perspective I am also suffering from a physical problem totally unrelated and I have been seen in hospital 4 times in the same time period (since November) including surgical treatment. This is for a condition that is annoying but not life threatening or dangerous and yet the condition that I have that is the most dangerous and affects the mind has just been left. Luckily I'm not suicidal and I have a fantastic support network. What if I wasnt as lucky. Is it any wonder so many people are taking their own lives