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Bullying at work

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DisneyMMA · 07/02/2020 11:34

So I work in the NHS and I have this person that keeps on bullying me all the time she's alot older then me , and every morning I'm In work I always try say hello but she ignores me , but when other staff and management are around she puts an act on and starts talking to me , she's always talks down to me , always goes and tells off me when im like 2 mins late off break or I've gone off, but she always goes out for a fag all the time . I had a really bad miagrane couple months ago as I have a noudle on my brain, which causes headaches and she said it's only a headache etc then moaned. And another time I had broken my wrist and I was going on holiday but as I was on the plane my wrist was swelling up so cabin crew had to take it off , so I had to go to there and get a splint as I had a cast on before , so I was by the pool I had taken a picture on my Snapchat and the women had taken a screenshot of my pic and showed management, then my boss texted me saying why did I take it off so I explained and this was resolved but this women is always going on at me she always does it when people are not around 😠😪😭

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Fairenuff · 07/02/2020 12:16

I would just ignore her.

LonginesPrime · 07/02/2020 12:40

every morning I'm In work I always try say hello but she ignores me

Stop saying hello to her - you're giving her the power to blank you, but if you stop trying so hard to be civil, it takes away her opportunity to reject your greeting.

And block her on all social media. From the fact she's showing your posts to others, she's clearly interested in picking on you so don't give her any ammunition. Be back on time after all breaks so she's got nothing to legitimately criticise and let her silly comments just pass you by.

It sounds like she's enjoying the power she currently wields over you so take it back from her by not rising to the bait.

If that doesn't work and she continues, you could start to keep a note of her comments (times, dates, witnesses, etc). But I'd recommend trying to brush it off first as it sounds like you've wasted enough energy worrying about her already.

tenlittlecygnets · 07/02/2020 12:43

Block her from all social media. Do not engage with her. Ignore her.
Do you work directly with her?

I wouldn't class this as bullying.

GiveHerHellFromUs · 07/02/2020 12:47

She's not bullying you.

Is she at the same level as you?

Block her on social media and don't take longer breaks than you're entitled to.

DisneyMMA · 07/02/2020 12:55

Thank you so much 😁I already keep a dairy of when she does stuff to me and dates thank you for it advice

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Troels · 07/02/2020 13:01

She does sound horrible.
I too would block her I'd also keep track of what she does/say to you, and count up all her ciggy breaks.
I work often with another collegue (same level) who constantly goes for a quick puff. I don't keep track as she's lovely, I also will occasionally take a little longer on a break, she doesn't care.

DisneyMMA · 12/02/2020 22:37

She's the same level and keeps slagging me off behind my back , my colleague tells me as this person doesn't know how close me and her is ,so she tells me , she says I'm lazy , I can't write probley and I'm always going off sick , today she was telling me what to do and that , with my sickness I suffer from nF1 I have a benign tumor behind my left eye and on left side of my brain so I have really bad miagranes , I've broken my wrist which wasn't my fault 😭and when I'm ill she says oh what's wrong with you this time I can't help having these health problems

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Shamazing · 12/02/2020 22:49

She's not bullying you but she sounds like an absolute cow. Ignore.

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