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Is it the end I just don't know.!

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Mummyof2boys2019 · 03/02/2020 23:03

So this is a really long post im really sorry and kinda new this to.
Do me and my husband of 5 years split up were both in our 30's but have known ea h other most of our lives. We have two amazing boys.
But my husband talks to me like absolute sh#t I feel like i tread on egg shells in my own home. It could be the tiniest thing like if I answer the phone he moans im on the phone to have i even washed up today. BTW my house is always spotless teas always on the table washings always done and in return I get nothing back. He calls me nasty names. Until now I feel like I've just become this recluse that if I say anything or the wrong thing he jumps down my throat so I say nothing. And now I get is I don't show him any effort but how am I meant to when all I get is negative back. Are we just doomed or can this be worked out? I don't know. Confused

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Gilead · 04/02/2020 00:30

He sounds controlling. You shouldn’t be walking on eggshells and your children shouldn’t be seeing this . Please leave. I say this as someone who coped with sort of behaviour for over 20 years.

HauntedSocks · 04/02/2020 00:37

Ltb!

OutOntheTilez · 04/02/2020 00:40

How have you lasted five years married to this man? Has he always been so controlling?

It doesn’t matter, really. You and your boys deserve better. They certainly shouldn’t be witnessing this behavior.

I don’t see how you can work it out. Ask yourself: Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this man? What’s more, do you want to?

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comingupafterthebreak · 04/02/2020 01:00

He sounds truly awful just from the small amount you've said so far. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone like this? None of this is your fault.

Mummyof2boys2019 · 04/02/2020 07:15

Thank u so much for your msgs back
@OutOntheTilez not really i know I don't want to be unhappy and live like this for the rest ofy life. Yes I've only mentioned a few things honestly the list is endless. I lm no angel but nothing that warrants this kind of behaviour. I'm a good person. And don't get me wrong his an amazing dad to the kids I can't slag him off in that way. But to me i might as well be the glorified cleaner. Thanks ladies x

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Mummyof2boys2019 · 04/02/2020 07:32

I think im just scared for the future. His family are lovely we get on so well. They know what his like. I know what has to be done just doubt it and saying it are two different things. I feel like All the ' I'm sorry it won't happen again' mean nothing to me now and I've just given up. X

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