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Confront the other woman?

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Newmammy123 · 03/02/2020 00:28

Me and my partner work together. Whilst I was on maternity leave I came across inappropriate messages between my partner and a colleague. I confronted the pair of them and let it at that because my baby was my main priority instead of starting ww3. Almost a year later and at a works do the colleague decided to brag about her sexting with my partner and now the whole workplace seems to know. She was obviously drunk when she spoke about it but she apparently mentioned it on more than one occasion. Do I take her to one side to tell her how annoyed I am that I'm having to deal with this topic again or leave it? Other half is pissed off at it being brought up again but hasn't had anyone ask him about it. I'm constantly being spoken to about it during every shift.

Thank you in advance.

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BillHadersNewWife · 03/02/2020 02:56

Do I take her to one side to tell her how annoyed I am

NO!

I'm constantly being spoken to about it during every shift

Could you speak to your line manager about this? Who is speaking to you about it? It's not appropriate at all.

Aquamarine1029 · 03/02/2020 03:00

I wouldn't lower myself by speaking to her about it. She's doing an excellent job of making herself look like a fool already.

Newmammy123 · 03/02/2020 11:14

My line manager seems quite close to her and she isn't the most professional. I'm so paranoid I feel like everyone is looking at me.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 03/02/2020 11:17

I’m cringing for her. And him. You need to ignore all the comments and try to retain your dignity.

Is one or both of you looking for a job elsewhere?

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