Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Would you take a nanny who has...

50 replies

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 16:06

four other jobs on the side ?

Really stressed and I need a nanny by Monday !

I've interviews 3 nanny's but none are suitable. I recently interviewed one other nanny, who is great, but she has 4 other jobs on the side. I have no issues with this as she cannot live on a part time salary and good on her for earning money. But I'm worried about her flexibility, last minute cancellations and if she would be able to commit long term. If I take her on. I will be her 5th employment.

What should I do ?

OP posts:
waterbottle12 · 30/01/2020 16:47

offer a gross salary and assume she can only do the days you employ her for
if she is unreliable then sack her as you would for anyone else
maybe make it a long probation period

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 17:09

How long for a probation period ?

OP posts:
GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 30/01/2020 17:12

Also if you want flexibility you have to pay for it I’m afraid. You can’t expect her to leave time free for you ‘just in case’.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 17:13

Wouldn't you worry about having a stressed out many looking after your child? It's bad enough when it's he parent who's stressed out but a paid caretaker?

On the other hand, it can work but not ideal.

Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 17:14

Nanny*, not many! Being dealing with blooming autocorrect since today!

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 17:15

Georgie Of course I'm going to pay ! I don't take advantage of my nannies I employ .

Flexibility, in terms of, if I'm running late etc.

OP posts:
oooyummy · 30/01/2020 17:17

Nothing that's what I'm worried about, she was even contemplating taking on a 6th job for a family who require some care. I'm more worried about cancellations. I.e, if she is unable to do a pick up on our required days because she has to do a job elsewhere.

OP posts:
Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 17:21

Wow! She is really laying it on. I hope she takes a breather. I get that it's hard but one has to be alive and healthy to make money.

Anyway, I personally couldn't do it. The possibility of flakiness is high plus the stressed out/tired overworked nanny looking after a child. If I was in dire need, I might take it on temporarily till I found someone else....and I would be searching like there's no tomorrow.

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 17:37

The problem is that she's from an agency and I have to pay placement fee costs if I take her on.

OP posts:
Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 17:46

Ah! I see. Tricky, isn't it?

Well, if you have no other choice ....

Oliversmumsarmy · 30/01/2020 17:49

Presumably she has 4 other employments because she isn’t flaky and is very professional

I would ask about if you were running late how flexible she is and would that be affected by the 6th family.

starfishmummy · 30/01/2020 17:50

I suppose it depends on the other jobs. If she has 5 employers for one day each is very different to her doing one job in the morning, another in the afternoon and one one in the evenings.

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 17:54

Her other jobs are quite flexibility. Though there are some days she will be unavailable to do the job. I think she'll only be doing two jobs when she is with me.

OP posts:
RubyandMax · 30/01/2020 17:55

If you want her to be flexible in case you are late then you need to employ her for the hours you might need - so if you are normally home at 6 but sometimes not til 7, then employ her til 7.

If you being late makes her late for another job then that is your flakiness, not hers.

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 19:06

I'm going to think about it. I am interviewing another nanny tomorrow, so I'll see.

OP posts:
Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 19:41

Goodluck OP. Hope you find something and someone suitable.

DecemberSnow · 30/01/2020 19:47

Can you talk to her again.
Ask her, her circumstances

Depending where you are, Are there any nanny acencies you can go through? Even for temp care untill you find a suitable nanny (Not ideal)
Have you tried childcare.co.uk?

DecemberSnow · 30/01/2020 19:47

Os there local nanny facebook groups in your area you could try?

ItWillBeBetterinAugust · 30/01/2020 19:53

It totally depends doesn't it - if you need Monday to Wednesday 8-6, and she has a permanent Thursday and Friday job for family A, plus a regular Saturday mornings for family B, and as hoc Babysitting for families C and D it's fine as long as babysitting doesn't take priority over your role Monday to Wednesday without prior agreement (eg. That she absolutely has to leave on time to get to a pre arranged babysitter job at 7:15pm).

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 20:08

Would you take on a nanny who has no nannying experience ? She has worked as a teacher in her own country and currently works in hospitality.

OP posts:
Nothing2doooooo · 30/01/2020 20:25

Depends..on referrals and references. I do believe someone can take care of a child without nanny experiences ( of course, parents..hello..lol) but I would need to have a sense about this person plus a practical reason to trust that they can. Like How would employment work wih them? No agency? Tax? Payment? Child safety cert, blah blah, etc.

Elieza · 30/01/2020 21:04

Depends on what common sense she has I suppose. Does she know child first aid? Would she cope if dc were sick or injured or something? Does she know the health and hygiene basics re cooking food properly to avoid food poisoning and using the fridge (separating cooked and raw meat etc). Is her grasp of English or whatever language you speak good so she understands dc?

oooyummy · 30/01/2020 22:02

Elieza Her English is very good. I just require someone to pick up DS from school, get him to his activities and drop him off to me at my work place- as it's literally 10 minutes away from my home.

OP posts:
ItWillBeBetterinAugust · 31/01/2020 09:07

That's not a nanny job then oooyummy that's a babysitter/ chauffeur job. She'll presumably have almost no time in sole charge except when driving him from A to B and B to C!

Elieza · 31/01/2020 09:34

Id ask she have a full clean driving license with no points and insurance. If she’s been done for dangerous driving or something you’d want to know as she’ll be driving your child.

Sounds like she won’t be cooking or anything then so that’s fine. She should still have a first aid qualification but I guess it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.

Swipe left for the next trending thread