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7 year old "bored" at school

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TossACoinToYourWitcher · 29/01/2020 09:45

Just wondering if anyone has any experience of this and what I can do to help, if anything.

My 7 year old son is in Year 2 at school. He's always been pretty bright and really engaged in learning new things, especially anything science related, and up until the last couple of months he has loved going to school.

However recently he has been complaining that school is boring and that he doesn't want to go. He is quite hard work in the mornings and it's often a struggle to get him up and dressed because he says he doesn't want to go.

I've spoken to the teacher and she said she would keep an eye on him. Pretty sure it's not friendship related because he's pretty popular with a large group of boys and when asked if anyone has upset him he's quite clear that no one has.

His teacher says that he's very capable but refuses to show it (pretty sure that is teacher speak for lazy?) and I'm just wondering if there is anything I can do to help him feel more positive at school and want to engage more. It's a total change from last year when he always did really well. We get half termly updates with a sort of traffic light system for things like effort and he used to get all green but has recently had yellow.

It's just such a change for him and I'm at a loss over what to do, if anything.

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undead · 29/01/2020 09:48

We have this kind of thing happened twice. Both times there was friendship issues.

LittleLongDog · 29/01/2020 09:49

If he’s bored then he won’t be trying.

Can you enrich his excitement for things from your end?
Find out what he’s doing and take him on related days out. Set up a reward system at home for achieving green for effort.

TossACoinToYourWitcher · 29/01/2020 10:02

Thanks undead, I will certainly probe that a bit further but I'm almost positive this isn't the case. He is very popular, in that the last few birthday parties he has been invited to have been booked with his availability in mind. He is quite sensitive though, so it's possible that something or someone has slighted him in a small way and he's taken it to mean something much more if that makes sense.

LittleLongDog That's a good idea about a reward system thanks. And yes I agree if he is bored he won't try, I guess I'm trying to get to the root of why he is bored when he used to be so engaged with everything.

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