I feel like I’m walking on eggshells with my other half & have been since I had a baby 4 months ago. To cut long story short I do all feeds with baby through the night as she is breastfed, he sleeps in the spare room yet he doesn’t currently work or when he does it is from home, I do majority of everything and am absolutely knackered! He never check on us if he used the bathroom in the night or if she’s crying badly because of colic he’d never come and help. He says his sleep is needed to be able to help in the day....tonight I put the washing machine on at 10pm as spent all evening doing housework, his spare room is above it and when it was finishing up it was rattling the room & the car was meowing too. He went storming downstairs at half past midnight slamming doors and shouting, I was settling the baby back down and he storms into the room opens the door loudly and shouts at me For putting the machine on. The poor little one jumps and goes quiet as she’s scared (this has happened before with him shouting at me with her in my arms) he tells me off as he tells me he can’t sleep because of the machine and I calmy say I didn’t expect the cycle to be that long or that it would cause that much of an issue. I rarely put a wash ok so late, how was I supposed to know it would cause him so much trauma. He doesn’t care that I have a baby in my arms OUR baby, he slams the door and stomps back to his room Slams his door too. Literally says nothing to me about anything apart from this angry outburst. I can’t understand how anyone can do this whilst seeing his own daughter in her mother’s arms. This is just 1 example of his behaviour. Is this what other people would go mad at? Surely if he’s annoyed he shouldn’t take it out on me in this way? I’m sat shaking and unable to go back to sleep. I know now if I try to get help from him tomorrow with the baby he will complain that he’s not had enough sleep and it’s my fault.