@SunbeamsOverhead
Have you ever tried Veganuary?
I am (more or less) a lifelong vegetarian who has always wanted to go vegan but also have found it hard. I'm also wheat free for medical issues so I always felt that made it harder.
But I have done veganuary a few times now and then let the dairy free bit continue on for over a year once (i still ate eggs then) .
But this time round I'm not finding Veganuary a challenge at all so I think it may just become a way of life now.
My daughter's friend had a great way of thinking about it...she suggested to me years ago that instead of saying "I'm going to give up dairy altogether " then feeling like you've 'failed' if you eat cheese or chocolate then say to yourself " I am going to eat LESS dairy ". I liked that way of thinking.
So a plant based diet with some dairy if you are finding it hard to cut out completely, then you may find that it doesn't become an issue and you just naturally cut it out altogether.