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Would this be allowed at an appointment

37 replies

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 16:49

My friend has got a stockpile of tablets that she intended to use to harm herself. She’s planning to give them to her care coordinator at their appointment tomorrow to keep herself safe. Will her care coordinator take them? She feels this will keep her safe.

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lilyboleyn · 19/01/2020 18:01

Any pharmacy will take them.

DartmoorChef · 19/01/2020 18:05

She could flush them down the loo.

Aridane · 19/01/2020 18:07

It is very good that she feels able to speak to her care co-ordinaries about this. If flushing the tablets away or going to a pharmacist were an option she felt up to, doubtless she would have done so

mynameiscalypso · 19/01/2020 18:08

I've done this with my psychiatrist before; he had no issue with it. Can't see why a care coordinator would be any different

Mombie2016 · 19/01/2020 18:09

Don't flush them, stupid idea.

Yes her coordinator will take them.

screamuntilthewarisover · 19/01/2020 18:11

Care co should take them and legally can take them but may not be able to give them back.

Your Friend needs to give them to CC so they are aware how much your friend is struggling.

If you’re friend gives them to a pharmacist or bins then the CC won’t be aware they need more support

Butterer · 19/01/2020 18:13

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user3575796673 · 19/01/2020 18:13

Are you hoping CC will push for a bed if you do this? Because it's unlikely.

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 18:21

No she doesn’t want a bed she’s wants to be safe. I care deeply about all my friends but the ones with mental health problems I really worry about.

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busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 18:22

She feels embarrassed going to the pharmacy which is understandable.

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Davros · 19/01/2020 18:26

Please don't flush them. Ridiculous suggestion

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 18:28

She won’t flush them as she knowns it’s damaging.

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Grumpbum123 · 19/01/2020 18:28

Don’t flush give to her CCO
I have single handedly provided enough paracetamol stashes for my CCO to technically never have to buy any ever again. She passes them to pharmacy to destroy them

AlexaAmbidextra · 19/01/2020 18:33

She could flush them down the loo.

No she shouldn’t.

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 21:56

She’s worried her care coordinator won’t take them.

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ChickLitLover · 19/01/2020 22:00

She feels embarrassed going to the pharmacy which is understandable

Could you take them to the pharmacy for her? I’ve given bags of meds back to a pharmacy, some without boxes/name on them so no one will know they were hers, not that she should feel embarrassed.

I hope your friend gets the help they need.

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 22:35

I’m currently in hospital so unfortunately can’t take them to the pharmacy. I would if I could.

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Sagradafamiliar · 19/01/2020 22:37
Thanks
FREEM · 19/01/2020 22:39

seems v attention seeking.
she could Bin them

Mrsjayy · 19/01/2020 22:42

Her care coordinator will want her safe I am sure they willeither take them or know how to manage the situation.

partysong · 19/01/2020 22:42

What a shitty comment Freem!

Yes the care co will take them - it's pretty standard to 'remove means' if someone is feeling suicidal. Your friend has nothing to be embarrassed or worried about, it's normal practice.

Mrsjayy · 19/01/2020 22:46

Yes sometimes people with mental health problems/illnesses "attention seek"the kind and practical thing to do is give it tothem Freem the op friend is clearly seeking support,

ChickLitLover · 19/01/2020 22:49

Sorry to hear you’re in hospital.

I would tell your friend to rip her name off all the medication and take them to the pharmacy pretending they are a friends or relatives. I gave a bag of my own and also a bag of an elderly relative who had died. They just took the bag from what I remember.

busyweeks78 · 19/01/2020 22:49

She could put them in the bin but she would still able to access them and also they could end up in the hands of someone else who miss use them.

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Mrsjayy · 19/01/2020 22:52

She can just hand them over tonher carer it is fine

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