How much money do you think is realistic for the average person (say in their mid 30's - 40's with at least one child) to have in their savings account? I'm not talking about high earners, rather those on a lower - middle income. I was talking about this with DP today and in my opinion he doesn't live in the real world.
He comes from a country where many people live with and are supported by their parents well into adulthood, basically until they get married usually, and many go to work for the family business. University is also fully funded by parents. The incomes are lower than the UK, but obviously living at home and having literally no outgoings, it's pretty easy to save a large amount of money.
He has a sizeable chunk in his savings, but feels like it isn't enough. He doesn't seem to get how I don't have savings, but I moved out of home at 18, had to fund uni myself through loans, lived in London and ended up as a single parent at 33 after splitting up with DD's dad and had to support her with next to no financial support. I think it's pretty easy to see how I'm not going to have a spare 25k in my back account for a rainy day!!!
So to settle the disagreement. How much do you think the average person I mentioned above has saved for a rainy day/contingencies?