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Clares Law

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pinklillie · 12/01/2020 19:21

I am concerned for a friend who is in a fairly new relationship.

I have looked online regarding Clares Law. Is this something I could do to check his history? Does anyone know how this works.

I have loaded a website up a couple of times and haven't got past the first page of entering my postcode.

If I did this would he find out that someone has checked up on him? I don't want to cause any issues for my friend but I am worried for her.

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StripyTShirt · 12/01/2020 19:42

As far as I'm aware, she needs to do this for herself. What makes you so worried about her?

Smudge27 · 12/01/2020 19:43

You could make the application on behalf of your friend. If it was decided that a discloser needed to be made, the discloser would be made direct to your friend. The new partner wouldn't be told that someone had applied.

MagentaRocks · 12/01/2020 19:44

You can apply but the information won't go to you. The best thing is to speak to your friend and get them to do it.

pinklillie · 12/01/2020 20:20

There are a few red flags from things she has said and his behaviour. Another mutual friend is also concerned. I think I might just speak to her and suggest she does it herself. I just don't know how to broach it with her but if I don't and something does happen I wouldn't forgive myself for not being honest.

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