Abusive ex has just declared that he is in a relationship. No issue there, hopefully he will p*$$ off and leave me alone.
The new woman is a nurse.
Ex is very manipulative and controlling, still playing mind games with me, still trying to get under my skin. I cant go NC with him due to the very young DC.
My concern is about his new partner, whom I understand "knows about him being arrested but it's all lies" being manipulated into assisting him in his abuse. I understand that this is often the case, where the women are manipulated and made to believe that the man was the victim and often come to hate the ex with a passion, assisting with custody battles, etc.
He has previously asked a police friend to check records on his behalf to find out where I lived. Fortunately she didn't and informed her superiors as well as me. He knows where I live now and theres no issue with that.
However I'm worried that as his new partner is a nurse, he may try to manipulate her into accessing my medical records. He always goes on about me being "mental" and needing help etc so I can imagine he would love it if she were to access my files and give him some ammo.
My question is, does anyone know if she can? I'm not saying she will, but he can be very persuasive.
I am in a neighbouring town to the hospital where she works but within the same NHS trust area.
Thanks