I took my 2 ds for their annual optician appointments today and went in with no concerns as both of their eyesights have always been perfect.
Both had pre bit, both fine. Both went in and had test, both fine and the optician said both of their eyesights were absolutely fine but then asked my eldest DS to go for another test for peripheral vision which they did twice.
Called us back into the room and said that eyesight is absolutely fine and he can’t see anything at the back of his eye but he has to refer him to the GP and mentioned a department I think for a further test which he said will probably be the same as this to start with.
He said that it could be due to being tired (DS is 13 and has always struggled with sleep since day dot). He has a mind that likes to follow processes and has said to me before that his mind will think of something super complicated like building a pc or figuring out the inside of a car and he can’t sleep until he’s finished the process.
We’ve been to the gp a few times and been given leaflets on insomnia, tried a million (not literally but allot) of ideas for better sleep but from a 9pm bedtime he can often be laying awake until 1am. Sometimes as early as 11pm on a good night but sometimes 3am on a bad night
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This is one of a fair few things that point to the fact that I and others think that he’s most probably on the spectrum but no diagnosis has ever been pushed for as he gets on socially and emotionally well and we have found ways to work with any struggles.
My youngest son is diagnosed with adhd with asd traits and spd so it’s highly likely.
All this aside the optician said that it needed to be looked into.
He also suffers with headaches frequently and ends up taking paracetamol but we’ve been to the gp about this and it was put down to a mixture of being a teenager, his sleep problems and screen time.
I’ve had a little google and have terrified myself so I won’t google anymore. Just wait to see how the gp appointment goes.
Does anyone have any experience of this sort of thing and can offer some insight please?