I'm sorry to post in chat, I just thought this might be the best place for traffic.
I need some housing advise for my brother as I have no idea what to do/suggest.
He had a council flat that he lived in for a couple of years. When he met his new girlfriend, he decided to give up his flat to move in to her council house about an hour away. We all advised against this as he was moving away from his daughter and doesn't drive so has very little contact with her.
And now it seems to have backfired as he and his girlfriend have now split up and he has left her house. He has a part time job local to where his girlfriend lives, but due to public transport and the time it would take to get there he would spend more getting there than he would earn as he is only contracted 13 hours per week on minimum wage. So now it looks like he will have to leave this job.
He is under the impression that as he left his first council flat, our local council is under no obligation to house him? He is staying with us temporarily but we have no spare room and he can't sleep on our settee forever. I'll try to encourage him to look for more work, though he has never kept a job for too long before packing it in and he has no qualifications which makes it more difficult.
He is going to go to our local council office as soon as they open but I was just wondering if anyone had any advise on what he can do?
He suffers with depression and anxiety and I wish I could help more but I don't really know what to do. We have a little money in savings but we are living hand to mouth as it is and I know he wouldn't want to accept any cash as it is as he's very proud. Both my mum and dad (who are separated) will not have him stay with them and I'm just so worried.
He might get back together with his girlfriend, however they have a very volatile relationship and if they get back together I can see the exact same thing happening a few months down the line (as it did with his previous girlfriend)
Thank you for reading and any advice!
And also I have put this in paragraphs but my mumsnet app seems to hate paragraphs so I'm sorry if this isn't readable!)