My rapist just sent me a message

[Hopingforabetter2020]

The man who raped me 10 years ago has just send me a Facebook msg, a GIF wishing me a happy 2020!!

I’ve now blocked him, he was previously blocked but I made a new account 3 years ago and didn’t even think about it.
I didn’t report it and have done all I can to put it to the back of my mind.
What an arsehole!
Know one In real life knows this so I’m really only posting cos it’s pissed me off and I need others to join in my indignantion!!

I hope he has shittty 2020 and dies

If the police were involved I would honestly report this to them, it’s surely witness intimidation even if the events happened years ago

What a douchebag. 

Hope you have a brilliant 2020 @Hopingforabetter2020

Fucking dick head. Fuck him.

Try not to think about it, he wants a reaction so don’t let him know it’s upset you. Block him and forget it.

My rapist did the same last year and emailed me on my birthday. He just wanted to ruin my day because that’s the kind of person he is. I didn’t allow him to destroy me yet again, I deleted the email and got on with my day.

Fucking prick. I got a jolly 'merry Christmas' from someone who did similar. Mine wasn't violent as such and I just don't think he saw anything wrong. Hope you have an amazing 2020. And yes, if it went to the police, pass the message on.

What a bastard
What is his situation in life now
Tbh I’d be tempted to do something v v nasty to him to get revenge in some way

I’m enraged for you too and sending support

Block at the speed of a bat out of hell.

The two scenarios that I can think of right now are that:
a) that he is messaging you to hurt you or?
b) that he is trying to engage you in conversation to prove that you are on friendly terms with him, in order to absolve himself of guilt. Sort of like, "look she messaged me best wishes for the new year. That proves it can't have been rape!"

Do not respond. Whether it is a power game or a bid for absolution, do not respond.