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Children spending less time outside than a prisoner

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ivykaty44 · 30/12/2019 20:15

Is this a problem?

Today was mostly a fine winters day yet crowds shopping and roads gridlocked but local park empty.

Or is it not important for children to be outside?

Discuss

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ShinyGiratina · 31/12/2019 00:33

In recent months, mine have spent far less time outside than I would like due to the extreme shittiness of the weather. We have good clothes, but there is a limit to how often you can face churning reluctant children out into the pissing rain and general swampiness of outdoors. 5 minutes walking to school leaves me splatted in mud up to my knees as the ground is so saturated that every time it rains (most days since mid-August), a stream goes trickling through the park then onto the pavement. The garden has been out-of-bounds for two months, before my county and local area were hit by major floods. If I let them out, the garden will be churned into a clay pit in minutes and it will take much longer for it to recover in the spring.

One child is amenable to going out to play football, but the park is a quagmire. The other struggles with team sports due to SNs, and there's a limit to how much joy you can have wading through mud hunting for soggy sticks. They have outgrown the only playground in our neighbourhood.

Normally we are quite outdoorsy, but the weather has been such a barrier to most outdoor activities since the "summer".

JockTamsonsBairns · 31/12/2019 00:45

We live in the Yorkshire Dales, and my DC's are constantly out. We're really lucky, our house is on the edge of the village green, and all the kids congregate there to play, and to go out on their bikes. It's a massive reason we chose to live here, it's an idyllic childhood for them all.

00Sassy · 31/12/2019 00:55

I find it fucking hard to get them out to the park etc.
We both work, around each other, so him days & me evenings.
I work part time and he works full time so as per mn rules I do most of the housework.
This means that I still have to get the washing, dishes, cleaning and tidying of kitchen/bathrooms/bedrooms etc even when they’re off school, then still go to work.
So yes, they’re often entertained in the house during the day.

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HopeClearwater · 31/12/2019 00:59

There’s some evidence from Asia (I forget exactly where) of more children being shortsighted these days because they don’t spend enough time outside allowing their eyes to focus on objects at a decent distance away.

candycane22 · 31/12/2019 01:13

Too many dogs. Kids can't play in parks any more, they seem to be territories for dogs shitting everywhere and bounding around off leads.

ivykaty44 · 27/11/2020 20:40

I wonder if this has now changed due to covid19

parks round here are packed daily, such a change from a year ago when hardly anyone about in the winter especially

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MarshaBradyo · 27/11/2020 20:42

The local park is so busy on weekends with dc.

We go every day or two with toddler not as busy in week, but still many in playground

Hellomoonstar · 27/11/2020 20:46

Since the first lockdown when people were told not to go outside and stay in. That is when parks became very busy

ThatDamnScientist · 27/11/2020 21:03

I do find it annoying when people finish their posts with "discuss" like some demand.

Witchend · 27/11/2020 22:19

My parents went for "lovely country walks". Apparently we all loved them.
They were great I can tell you. In case you want a plan on how to do them for your family, let me give you some pointers:

A "short afternoon's walk" might be returning at 10pm (having left at 1pm) before we were home. That might be due to df thinking he knew a short cut. Finding a nice bog for dsis to get stuck in or simply that dp were enjoying it so much they decided to go further.
I well remember the "short walk, no more than an hour" when we asked after three hours how much further. "You see that hill in the distance," df said cheerfully. "We're aiming to climb the one just beyond it."

They might have bought a nice healthy packed lunch/dinner too. We'd eat it while they told us how lucky we were to have such a lovely healthy lunch in the wonderful muck spread smelling fresh air rather than thoughtless parents who might take their children to a café. I got very good of disposing of the entire pack lunch without anyone noticing. I still don't do squashed sandwiches, and fruitcake crumbs tainted by the smell of milton. So I was pretty hungry by the time I got back.

If you needed the loo then there were plenty of bushes. No thank you. So I didn't drink either. So I was thirsty too. One of the best ways to raise a migraine in me too.

There was also the dog issue. Df is brilliant with animals. Walk through a farmyard with a guard dog and he'll have the aggressive beast on the floor at his feet in seconds, begging for a tummy tickle. The rest of us had to leg it through hoping it didn't catch us. Sometimes it did.

Ditto cows. He'd stride through the field and the cows would end up all standing round the one style out of the field gazing lovingly at his retreating back. The rest of us had to walk through them. Cows are pretty big btw. I think they want to take over the world.

We would have the inevitable (in the middle of the marshes where it looks the same in each direction) of checking the map. Don't know how they did it, but whichever way they turned led into a pathway that was about 6" deep in mud. My dsis lost a boot once and had to walk back without it. You tell that was a highlight of the walk.

Then we had the birdwatching. Dp are keen amateur twitchers. This means that from "come on, keep up, or it's going to get dark", they suddenly spot the lesser spotted whatnot and stop. For half an hour. In November that's pretty cold. And also refer to the mud. Inevitably there would be nowhere to sit.

Then when that was over, and they'd realise the tweeting noise was actually coming from dm's rucksack straps and not an unusual bird, they'd realise that it was now coming on dark, they didn't have a clue where we were and were going to be returning like an army route march, or a jog. Or both.

Then walking in the dark one of the parents would inevitably remember that the area had a warning for potholes/mineshafts/something else you really don't want to meet. They'd remind each other to bring a torch next time.

Arriving back at the car, we'd sigh a sigh of relief. Dp liked to park it by a streetlight which would enable dm to call out "watch out for the dog poo here."
Dsis would then tread in it. So then we'd all be sitting, cold, hungry and tired in the car while she stood on one leg and dm tried to clean it up.

Halfway home the parents would discuss who had/hadn't bought any milk that morning. They would come to the conclusion neither of them had, and we were all but out of it. So df would put the car into race home advanced driver mode in the hope to get back before the Spar "8 'till late" shut. We'd arrive there about 5 minutes after it closed. At least it livened up the last stretch home while they debated whose fault it was.

I'll stick at home with a nice book and some sewing thanks.

BogRollBOGOF · 28/11/2020 00:17

Thank goodness its rained less this autumn!

We are doing more walks because there's nothing else to do. This time last year, we had other options like swimming, or turning up at the National Trust when the whim took our fancy.

TheSunIsStillShining · 28/11/2020 01:37

@Witchend
Thank you :)

Here's another version of the same thing.
I grew up in an arab country and can relate but with sand, more sand, sand dunes for refreshments and some more sand. Camels are also huge. And there are no bushes to pee in. Also the scorching heat is terrible even with an umbrella. And it's not the next hill, but the next village which is "a lovely little place from 400 years ago" - where not even the residents changed since.
And the dog poo can be replaced by scorpions, huge spiders, iguanas* and snakes.
Tbf we only did actual short walks through the desert for obvious reasons, no more than an hour, but they always felt like a full day :) and my dad always had a map and a compass. But no sense of direction :)

*I was about 8 years old had to pee, actually found a bush (bare bones of it) and squatted down, peeing joyously when an iguana waltzed up to me and sat there looking at me and hissing. I didn't dare move, or scream. we just stared at each other for ages. I won. He got bored.

GlowingOrb · 28/11/2020 01:53

We are in the middle of a pandemic. Communal playgrounds aren’t safe. Kids are staying in their own gardens or going for walks with their families instead.

weepingwillow22 · 28/11/2020 05:03

My local council recently closed our local playground becuase they said it was too busy and hence unsafe. As a result all the children are now displaced to other playgrounds which are now too busy. I suspect it will not be long before they shut these too.

Chipsahoy · 28/11/2020 07:53

Communal playgrounds aren’t safe? My word, there is a huge amount of fear isn’t there?
I’ll be taking my three to the germ infested park later, hopefully we will make it out alive.

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