Got really annoyed with my husband earlier today. He was in this post-Christmas negative mood and it was really annoying; I was thinking all he wanted to do was pick a fight.
Went shopping with friends and he wanted to go, which was fine. It took us a while, and he hung out with their partners and when we were done they were like a pack of wolves the guys - complaining, angry etc. They would have gone their own way. Tried on a couple of things, asked him how they looked, if he liked it etc. All I got was do you need another dress, I don't know you're the one buying it etc. The baby starts crying and he's like "she's crying. You're not going to feed her?" through the dressing room as I am trying to get to her in the middle of changing.. Excuse me, but she's off the breast milk and you know how to handle her. Then it was ignore me and give me the silent treatment for a couple of hours.
We go for lunch and he doesn't like the food choices. Its greasy, this is disgusting etc. Then starts in on my dad giving our daughter a $25K savings as a Christmas gift, which was extremely generous. We should give it back, dad doesn't respect him by giving such a gift. He's being judged etc. At this point I'm done with the complaining and I say go talk to my dad and then its why are you getting all angry all the sudden.
We stop by and get a snack and he is munching on all these sweets and I gave him a look and he says what? It's Christmas. Okay, I wasn't going to say anything else. He's a type 1 diabetic so I was concerned and worried.
We go home, we smooth things over and I asked for sex; oh how could I? All kinds of excuses. I said fine, you don't want to sleep with me then go and sleep somewhere else. He says what do I say if they (my dad and stepmom) ask questions. I am getting super annoyed and say tell them we had a fight, I don't care. Its like just leave me alone already.