Dh moving out in the new year

[unicornsrule]

He doesn't want to be with me anymore we have been married for 16 years and have 2 daughters
Don't know how to feel want to enjoy Christmas

Sorry to hear this OP.

Is this just out of the blue? How old are your DDs?

Sounds awkward. I would want my other half out sooner than that if he was going...... I wouldn't prolong the agony. When my dad was leaving my mum he just hung around and in the end I had to put him out. My mother would have lost it otherwise. You have my sympathy.

I'm so sorry you are in this position. I was a few years ago. It was the shitest Christmas I had ever had. Think we both just went through the motions for the children. Don't know if they ' felt' it. But it gets easier. This Christmas is just me and the children. And I am really looking forward to a chilled out day. Eating. Playing silly games. And eating. 😀. Hope the new year brings you some. Peace. Let others support you.

Thankyou
Trying to keep Christmas special girls are 14 and 11

@unicornsrule if you report your post and ask it for it to be moved to Relationships, you'll get lots of support and advice

Why does he want to go in January? Tell him to fuck off now

To be honest if the girls are 11 and 14 I can understand that you want to keep it all together until after Christmas.

What a shit he is to do this to you like this.