My partner and I had our baby girl 6 months ago. The birth itself was very traumatic as my baby was stuck in my pelvis. My partner has never acknowledged how hard it was for me and only ever says how ‘he had to watch it’ and that I had pain relief, etc. After the birth he has been all but useless. It is 6 months in and he still doesn’t feel comfortable changing her clothes or settling her to bed. He goes out whenever he likes and says ‘ it is different for a woman, the man can do whatever he wants’. He often calls me selfish and says I need to grow up. Yet I am the one who is paying the majority of bills etc. I feel like having a child to him was a novelty... he just wants the fun times and not the hard. Or is he correct. Am I being selfish and need to grow up ? Any advice is appreciated!