Left school in the 70s at 16
School said you can do anything you want to but only if you do A levels and a degree.
Started off wanting to do acting. Was told not to be ridiculous and to get my feet back on the ground.
My mother gave me a choice of working in a bank or going into nursing.
Nursing, I knew I would have killed someone and I hate being surrounded by sick people.
I tried banking for 6 weeks then left.
Worked for the post office sorting mail for a few weeks.
Then decided to be an air hostess.
Mother said no as it was too dangerous and the selection process meant I would have been out of work for 6 weeks and I was just being lazy (would have got a temp job in the meantime but that wasn’t good enough) and I had my head in the clouds
Saw an advert for a Croupier in one of the cities casinos.
My mother said it was too dangerous and I would be killed
Ended up working in offices which was the most danger I have felt as my MH deteriorated and I did think I wouldn’t survive.
I look back on the missed opportunities and really regret not standing up to my mother sooner.
But equally wish someone had been there to advise me.
By the time I was 21 my life had made a turn I couldn’t undo.