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Englandpakistan12345 · 11/12/2019 04:55

Hi everyone I am really upset and don’t know what to do anymore my dad died October 1 this year and I’m finding it really hard to cope with this loss even though I knew it was coming because he had blood cancer but still shock for me as I was close to him.My mother whom I have never really got along with is very toxic st first I thought it was me but every time I seem to talk to her on the phone she starts fighting with me whatever I do ask her any question or talk about me problems she’s not interested and it makes me cry.

Anyways after my dad died I received messages from my younger brother saying you are a disgrace to your father’s name swearing at me and so on so I asked what happened what did I do??? Basically my dads sister complained that someone’s has been into her room and stolen her expensive jewellery and money and because I was sleeping in her room after dad died my mum and brother have decided that I’m the thief and have now stopped talking to me I told them why don’t I call the bloody police if this has happened but my auntie replied oh it’s not a big deal I must of misplaced somewhere!! Why r they cutting contact or behaving like this with me when I have done anything. :(

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Damntheman · 11/12/2019 09:31

Oh I'm sorry OP. What an awful set of things to happen to you right after something so devastating. Death brings out the absolute worst in people, it's horrific. Even the sweetest of family members can be so cruel in times like these.

I'd advise you to block them for a while so you can deal with your loss without added harrassment. Explain that you did not do what they are claiming you did and you will be taking your space for a few months.

Do you have support from friends or any other family member?

Englandpakistan12345 · 13/12/2019 22:20

I have spoken to some of my family members and they just tell me that how can ur mother and brother be like this with u it’s shocking. Anyways I told my mum and brother that you not welcome in my home especially not to see my kids I’m bloody infuriated that they think it’s ok to treat me like shit it’s obvious that they don’t care.

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