My top tips are;
- Multiple accounts
- Set aside an amount each month as a rainy day fund and also a joint sinking fund so as when an unexpected household bill comes in you’re not under pressure
- Give yourself a weekly allowance
- Withdraw cash weekly instead of using card for everything
So DH and I each have the following;
- Joint account - used for all household bills including grocery shopping
- Current account for my day to day funds
- savings account#1 - linked to my current account which I can access at all times
- savings account#2 which I cannot access online or by using bank card
We split total household bills 50/50 and each add an extra £200 per month as a “sinking fund” for when we need something done around the house or new dishwasher etc.
On payday I transfer my half of the bills + my extra £200 to our joint acc. DH does same. Money is in account well in advance of bill payment dates.
The extra £200 each has built up a nice little cushion of cash in the joint account now and in recent months we’ve only dipped into it for things like new shoes for DS and a new hoover.
Also included in our monthly household bills budget is £50 per month towards Xmas to take the hit off Xmas shopping which we withdrew this week for Santa shopping.
For my personal money I do the following;
I move £400 per month to savings acc #2 which I don’t touch (unless in an absolute emergency)
I then move the rest of my monthly pay to my online savings account #1 and from this account I give myself a weekly allowance of £150 for petrol, clothes, lunch for work etc. Which I transfer every Friday back into my current account
There’s usually about £150 ish surplus each month after all of the above which I leave in my online savings account#1 and allow accumulate. I dip into this for things like birthday prezzies, if we’re going to a wedding, car expenses etc.