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Baby no 3??

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K1989ec · 25/11/2019 11:47

Hey all!
This is my first post and need some help! Lol so I’m 30 and had my first child when I was 25 he is now 5! I found motherhood incredibly difficult which I hid from everyone who thought I was doing a wonderful job! I was 28 when I had my second child! I had an awful emotional pregnancy and suffered depression but as soon as she was born she changed my life! I developed crippling anxiety after and again lived with this for a while until cut a long story short I put my self through cbt and this has completely changed me as a person and a mother! I have always adored my babies and they have a great life but it was just hard! I am now in a place in my life ware I feel incredibly strong and in control! ..... I have started to become broody and have no idea what to think!! Help a girl out 🤣

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Allegorical · 25/11/2019 12:01

I have three. It is pretty hard work. I don’t enjoy the baby bit much. I did it as I wanted a big family overall and all that comes with it. If that’s what you want then go for it.
If you want another because you feel you want to get the baby bit right this time then don’t. They really aren’t babies for long then you have three little people to deal with forever more....

Whatsmyageagain0 · 25/11/2019 12:05

I always knew I wanted three so I had three.
I’m happy I did it. 3 is the magic number

K1989ec · 25/11/2019 12:09

Thanks for the reply's ❤️ see I always saw that me and my husband would have 2 children and I feel incredibly fortunate to have them! Iv never really thought that maybe I have these feelings because of getting the baby bit right! That's really made me think! I appreciate your honesty on that one!

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