So I had plans this Xmas for the first time in 40 years for it not to have any special shit assigned to the day. DC1 is n the other side of the world and DC2 was in a secure relationship.
DC2 relationship is now on the brink so may be alone on Xmas day.
Would I be so harsh to say you are welcome to join me, but it won't be a 'traditional family Xmas' we will most probably eat a pre prepared roast of some description and just drink and watch crap tv as this is the Xmas I have been dreaming of for so long. No expectations from anyone just for once please myself, so if DD would like to join me and she is most welcome as long as it's a deconstructed Xmas