Been married 7 years and our relationship was ok until i started thinking differently last year. Last november i fractured a couple of ribs just by coughing, couple weeks later got pleurisy so was in a lot of pain constantly. I struggled to my work every day as its our busy time of year so on my days off i didnt do much and tried to just let my body rest and heal. All through this time my husband constantly moaned i was being lazy, him coming home and i hadnt done much around the house but the worst part for me was his constant moaning and moods that i wasnt being intimate with him, i got constant digs and silent treatment. No matter how much i tried to tell him how much pain i was in and wasnt physically fit enough i still got the moods and childish digs. I ended up in hospital just couple days before new year for 12 days with pneumonia , still had pleurisy and at that point i had 7 fractured ribs. Still i was getting digs that he forgets what sex is and oohhh was i seeing someone else.... I thought he was selfish, ignorant and felt he couldnt care less about me, ( only my body) . He says im the selfish one and dont care about him. Am i or is he wrong? However discovered i had a few other health issues while i was in hospital, i have osteoporosis and a rare autoimmune disease so now on a lot of meds for life and get tired easy. Husband kept things up till i got better and things got back on track but i still couldnt shake the feelings ive had since then and find it hard to feel the same. Now ive found myself joining here to ask some other opinions as 4 weeks ago i again fractured a rib and since then i have done another 1 and have pleurisy in both lungs yet again. Im on morphine and antibiotics but still in a lot of pain an my husband has started all his crap yet again because its been a month without sex. Im really hacked off to say the least and feel im starting to hate him. Am i being unreasonable or am i right in thinking he is being selfish and inconsiderate?