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My daughter misses her daddy

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Hollybobs87 · 11/11/2019 20:11

Me and my daughters dad have been together for 6 years we both have long and on going mental health issues our selfs and we were going through a bad patch in August this year to which her dad walked out on us both for the 7th time he has done this 7X to us except this has been the longest I haven’t seen him and neither has my little girl who is pining for him
All I no is he has moved address and is living and possibly in a new relationship with a man he’s changed all contact details and his name he is telling everyone I no I am a bad mum and I am always depressed I lost my dad to a massive heart attack a year ago and I was struggling with that me and my daughters dad didn’t live together but lived not far from each other since he has left and clearly moved on I asked for my things back toys and clothes of my daughters and things that belonged to my dad which I will never b able to replace he paid my neighbor to dump them in front of my door and she banged hell out of my door when I got to the door no one but some of my things were there
Mostly broken stuff I found some of my things the next day in charity shops I have got social services helping me right now
But my daughters dad is saying he isn’t prepared to pay maintenance unless he gets regular updates on me
My daughter is wanting to ask Santa for her daddy back

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OrangeHue · 12/11/2019 16:01

Op your message isn’t very clear and It’s not clear what you’re asking for?

Hollybobs87 · 12/11/2019 16:29

Advice on what to do

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JasonPollack · 12/11/2019 16:40

He can't withhold maintenance for any reason, so to start with you can apply to CMS to have it taken off of him.

Does he want to see your daughter? Is he in a stable place?

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JasonPollack · 12/11/2019 16:43

www.gov.uk/manage-child-maintenance-case

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MinnieMountain · 12/11/2019 16:55

It's horrible but you can't make him see his DD.

Hollybobs87 · 12/11/2019 17:17

He use to b a hands on dad he has walked out 7X in the past but for only 2-3 weeks max this time he’s been gone longer a lot longer one min he is saying he does the next he doesn’t he’s got in with a not so nice friend who told me to tell my daughter her dads dead and he will make sure we never see him again so I don’t really no what to do I obviously won’t b saying her dad is dead as that is cruel

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