Last night I was quickly using my DH phone for something and I ended up reading a stream of texts between him and work colleague.
They have to text professionally and there was nothing obvious to suggest an affair. However I was shocked at the tone of their exchanges. It just seemed slightly flirty, warm and well I didn't recognise the man I know. His texts to me are not like this.
As background we have been very happily married with two gorgeous kids. He is very committed to family life and me. Nothing like that to suggest affair e.g he hasn't changed character at home, hasn't started checking out etc
I have been a bit dissatisfied recently. He's very committed but doesn't express his love to me very openly. Though he does do anything to help and support me. He's been a bit more grumpy but he is tired etc
Not sure what to do.
I met this woman recently and I was taken aback by her reaction to me. She seemed uneasy with me. Couldn't put my finger on it at the time.