My daughter is 30 years old but lives at home. There are just the 2 of us Her brother died when she was 14 years old and she has never got her life back on track. She dropped out of Uni and has had a p/t job for the last 4 years.She is given to unpredictable angry flare ups so I avoid approaching her about the family packs of e.g Fairy cakes and Family bars of chocolate that are full one day and empty the next. I have health problems and have long been retired. She spends long hours in bed. When she's not working she doesn't get up till 1 pm. If I leave her to her own devices life feels relatively normal. Really I'm afraid of the angry outbursts and long days when she totally ignores me and stays in her room and ostracizes me. - I go out as much as possible. However the Family packs are getting larger and left where I can't fail to see them. I feel i have no one in my life to turn to. (I have a small house in Spain)
I'd really appreciate any advice please? Also could this behaviour lead to chronic health problems?