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Any Paediatricians or experienced mums here tonight? 2yr old lump behind ear

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Londonna · 27/10/2019 19:32

Any advice greatly appreciated, Dr Google is a bit of a scaremonger!

2yr DD has had a few ear infections in her life, last week her temperature shot up to 39.5 in one ear and 38 in the other, so we guessed another viral ear infection and dosed her with calpol for a couple of days until the fever went. She went off her food a bit but otherwise was fairly lively for the duration (approx 3 days, finishing on Friday just gone).

Today I noticed she was scratching the side of her head under her hair a fair bit after she awoke from her nap, so I took a look and noticed a pea-sized lump behind her ‘bad’ ear, and then another smaller, flatter lump behind her other ear. Dr Google tells me it’s likely to be enlarged lymph nodes from fighting infection, but I noticed it was red where she had been scratching (whether because of scratching or not I don’t know), and she’s also been scratching her head a lot today, which I’ve now read can be a sign of cancer 😞 obviously my anxious mum brain has latched straight on to that idea! The larger lump feels quite hard when she lets me touch it, I asked if it hurt when I gently pressed it and she said ‘yes’, but let’s be honest, she’s just turned 2 so 🤷‍♀️

Can anyone give me some words of advice? Planning to book a Dr app in the morning, but am alone tonight and worrying a fair bit.

Many thanks for any words of wisdom!

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Londonna · 29/10/2019 13:51

Thanks everyone for your advice and support over the last couple of days.

The Dr I went to see today was so helpful and thorough, it was like a different world. She said that DD’s lumps were exactly what she would expect from swollen glands when fighting an infection, and said that in the world of lumps, they were pretty small and innocuous ☺️ She said that actually the Dr yesterday had written notes to the same effect, which she allowed me to read, and said she didn’t really understand why the Dr went off piste talking about Lymphoma etc and worried me 🤷‍♀️

Anyway, she’s told me to keep an eye on them for a week but that I can forget about it being anything serious right now. Such a weight off my mind!

I really do appreciate everyone being so kind and taking the time to respond to me... thanks MNers. This place really is a fantastic resource for support between women.

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itsgettingweird · 29/10/2019 13:59

Whew. That sounds more reassuring and I'm glad the GP was sympathetic to why to sought a second opinion.

Hope your little girl bounces back soon HmmThanks

itsgettingweird · 29/10/2019 14:00

Sorry wasn't meant to put the eyebrow Blush I pressed it as I scanned the iPad across for flowers - which I did mean to give you Grin

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Londonna · 29/10/2019 14:12

Hahaha, I’ll take a Hmm today... my just desserts for overreacting yesterday 😆

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MrsHardbroom · 29/10/2019 14:15

So glad you got sorted. The other thing is that lymph nodes are often far more noticeable in small children because they have less body fat.

Iamaslummymummy · 29/10/2019 14:22

@Lonecatwithkitten

I would have been one of the 1970s cases. 1978 in St George's hospital :D

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