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Occupation order ignored

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Illuseittogrowasaperson · 26/10/2019 14:14

My ex is ignoring an occupation order with an arrest warrant attached. He may not enter street but doing so repeatedly. Police is not particularly helpful as by the time they come, he is gone. We live near the end of the street so he needs move 3 houses away not to be in the street he is not supposed to enter. There is no proof. Photo is not good enough. I was advised by the police to install CCTV that I can't afford.
It's hard because I struggle with PTSD thanks to that person.
We have teenage children together so I can't just up and move AFAP (as far as possible) physically or psychologically.
I go like:
This shall pass too.
Once it will be far in the past, nearly forgotten memory.

I am really trying to be thoughtfull about it, behave appropriately, move on but it's so hard. Very hard.

OP posts:
mynameisigglepiggle · 26/10/2019 15:52

Can you see him from the house? Can you record him on your mobile?

BendyLikeBeckham · 26/10/2019 15:56

A date and time stamped photo on your mobile phone would be sufficient evidence for a court to agree he has breached the order

BarbedBloom · 26/10/2019 16:47

Could you afford one of those ring doorbells that take video? Alternatively, mobile phone footage should be enough

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