sex life

[Pamsal]

im a mum for 2 , toddler 2 years and a wee girl 5 months, i dont feel i want to have sex with my husband after our first boy, and now its getting harder with 2 kids. i dont want to end up
our marriage. Im honest with him, but i dont feel he is gonna wait more for me , im afraid to cheat on me , what can i do! help

Your child is only 5 months so that's understandable but if you think your husband would sleep with someone else shy would you be with him?

What can you do? Get some pride and stand for what you want

My sex drive took a huge knock after both babies, especially the second as I was just so exhausted the whole time, having talked to others in a similar boat I think it's normal.
You should never feel pressured in to
Sex you don't want.

we love each other but i dont feel having sex with him anymore! i dont want to be selfish and let him live without sex same time i cant imagine him with someone else

he is always asking me , and i dont feel i want all the time😣 i dont want to end up this marriage same time im not ready for sex ! and i dont feel he is going to wait anymore

Well that's your decision you either want sex or don't and the decision to chest on you is his....that is life

Whatever you do, don't force yourself put of a sense of duty. It'll make everything worse, in my experience. He needs to step up his skills to make it pleasant for you. Maybe "sex" for you is a soothing backrub in a clean bedroom while you fall asleep.

I'm in a similar situation. Although only have 1 child and he's 1 today. We didn't have sex until son was 7/8 months as he would always wake whenever we tried. But we don't have sex often now as I just don't fancy it.