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Improving handwriting as an adult.

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DeadAliveDead · 25/10/2019 19:46

My handwriting is terrible, absolutely shocking to the point that even I have trouble reading it sometimes.

My mum, dad and brother all have beautiful handwriting and mine is illegible and scrawly.

Half of the problem is that my brain thinks the words faster than I can write them, so I end up mixing words up as I am writing a few words behind my thoughts.

If I slow down, and think about it, I can usually make it more legible, but the only way to guarantee writing anything that anyone else can read, is to use all capitals!

So, has anyone here managed to improve their handwriting as an adult, and if so how? Any tips gratefully received! Smile

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SamBeckett · 25/10/2019 22:15

No tips from me but watching with interest, my writing looks like to drunk spiders have walked through some ink

Justajot · 25/10/2019 22:19

Mine improved a bit when DD1 learned to write at school. Writing things out for her and modelling the cursive script they use made me think about letter formation.

So maybe get a kids practice book.

Toddlerteaplease · 25/10/2019 22:21

Also watching as my handwriting is terrible and my colleagues constantly complain about it.

HoliBobber · 25/10/2019 22:46

Probably an exercise book and copying out phrases 'the old brown fox' blah blah. This is what my nan used to make me do when I stayed with her. Weird but my mums handwriting is very neat.

HoliBobber · 25/10/2019 22:48

Also using a fountain pen. Ooh I must get one.

5zeds · 25/10/2019 22:48

Practice every day for a year or so

LoyaltyBonus · 25/10/2019 22:52

It wasn't until I worked in primary schools with teachers, who often have beautiful handwriting, that I realised that people who write neatly write incredibly slowly. I have to scribble it down before I forget Grin

KatherineJaneway · 25/10/2019 22:53

I have terrible writing. I hated it as a child as the teachers used to have a major go at me over my 'penmanship'. No idea how to improve Sad

I can't write neatly, I can't draw, I can't cut in a straight line. All things I was derided for by my teachers.

DeadAliveDead · 25/10/2019 23:47

Thanks all. That books look good, but a 3 month delivery time Shock

DS has some handwriting books, and I can trace and follow the letters in them perfectly, but when I go back to normal paper it goes wrong again!

I like the idea of a fountain pen, and lots of practice, however I have to use a ballpoint for work, so would love it if practising with a fountain pen translated across to a biro!

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OneHanded · 25/10/2019 23:56

Just keep at it! Although I feel your pain here! My handwriting got lovely after four years of constant writing at work and then in jan i paralysed my left hand and am learning to write again but being off work still means I literally never do!

HeddaGarbled · 26/10/2019 00:11

I taught adults. In my experience, it is very very difficult to improve handwriting as an adult - maybe one person in all the years I was teaching actually managed it.

You can do lovely handwriting for the exercises but transferring it to actual writing in real life is a completely different thing. Most people can manage to write slowly and carefully for a paragraph, but then deteriorate after that.

My honest advice is to type anything longer than a paragraph.

wasnotwasweregood · 26/10/2019 00:31

OP I used to be a marriage registrar and had to hand write people's marriage certificates, so legible and attractive handwriting was a must.
As other PP say above practise is key, but people often underestimate how strong your hands have to be to have a good control over your handwriting, so try and build up the muscles in your hands. Anything like bread/pastry making, knitting or pottery, gardening etc. Part of the problem is I think that we don't use our hands as much as we used to even 20 years ago!

EBearhug · 26/10/2019 00:39

Part of the problem is I think that we don't use our hands as much as we used to even 20 years ago!

I agree!

SarfE4sticated · 26/10/2019 00:51

I bought the books that children use, where you trace over the dotty letters with a pen. Then do a line of a's a line of b's etc. It takes a while, but you just need to practice and do it slowly. I had to learn cursive, but it's a good way to join all the letters quickly when you have the hang of it. I got quite good at it in the end, but have forgotten it all now and have reverted to scrawl.
One thing, if you're ashamed of your writing you hide it as you write, adopt a terrible posture and then never get good at it. Remind yourself that all doctors have terrible writing and then go for it.

Curunina · 26/10/2019 01:00

My art teacher gave me handwriting lessons, as there was some concern that I would fail state exams on the basis that nobody would be able to read my answers.
Her method was that we would take one letter, and for the next 3 weeks, I would focus on writing that letter (and just that letter) in a particular, legible way.
I found it effective- I'll never be a calligrapher, but I did pass all of my exams.

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