Advice wanted please!!
We’ve booked our wedding for June, and have now found out I’m pregnant due June! We obviously need to move the wedding date, but I’m reluctant to do that before the 12 wk scan (we’ve already told people the date). We’re really torn whether to move the wedding to Feb/March when I won’t be too big, and it’ll just be about us two or wait until after baby arrives. My h2b is keen we get married in 2020 so at best the baby would only be 6 months old. The advantage of delaying till afterwards means I can get my figure back (maybe/hopefully!) and have a few drinks, but I’m not sure if looking after a newborn and breastfeeding would mean that it still isn’t that much fun! We do have plenty of family who can help but still I’m sure a newborn will just want it’s mummy!!
Feeling like I’m being really selfish and vain as it is a happy dilemma to have, but I am having to come to terms with potentially not having quite as much fun on my wedding day, either because I’m sober 😂 or have a baby!!
Any advice/thoughts welcome! Thank you xx