OK, I know this has been done to death on here but I am absolutely fed up and exhausted with doing all the thinking in this household. DH is good at doing his set things but he constantly looks for direction. And this week has been a difficult one. and I'm fed up of making costly and stupid mistakes because I am being constantly interrupted by DH or DS. I have just discovered I left my car keys in a bag which i've washed in the washing machine, completely knackering electronics on key. Reason I was washing my bag was because lunch had leaked all over it on way to work this morning
I changed jobs about 4 months ago and the work is more stressful / demanding. I have a longer journey into work - between 45-60 minutes door to door. I work part time and like lots of people constantly am constantly juggling and I seem to be coping less with all the home admin.
So how can I fix this? I am tired of doing stupid things because I am tired / distracted / constantly having to think about what needs to be done later today / tomorrow etc. I seem to have become responsible for everything school related, everything family related, organising all social activities, everything holiday related, all washing/clothes, working out what we need to buy (clothes, food, house stuff) and being responsible for buying it for everyone, booking medical/dental appointments, meal planning etc etc.
I know I need to delegate or just let things slide but it seems impossible at the moment. I don't know where to start