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Feeling trapped

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randomnameone · 02/10/2019 16:30

I've realised I need to leave DH. I don't want to be too specific as he knows I post on here. The problem is I have no income, debts and I'm not on the mortgage. I've no family or friends and my credit rating is beyond awful. I'm unable to work so I can't even improve my finances before I leave. I can't believe I'm stuck in this awful mess and I don't know where to turn.

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Wildorchidz · 02/10/2019 16:31

Is he abusive? Have you children?

randomnameone · 02/10/2019 16:34

He's not physically abusive no. Yes I've children. Two of them have fairly severe additional needs.

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Singlenotsingle · 02/10/2019 17:45

So why do you want to leave him?

Tobebythesea · 02/10/2019 17:52

If you’re married surely you are entitled to half the house even if it’s in his name?

randomnameone · 02/10/2019 17:55

I want to leave because he's just unkind all of the time. It's been going on for years and years, stupidly I thought it would change but it hasn't obviously.

The house is complicated but I'm definitely not entitled to any of it.

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BishopFrownofStThigh · 02/10/2019 18:15

It sounds like you really need help? I'd contact a housing advisor and find out what the options are, it's not insurmountable. Say that he's emotionally cruel and seek up helpcruel and get up support

BishopFrownofStThigh · 02/10/2019 18:16

Gp support. Sorry phone playing up!

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