Daughter has some allergies, I’ve have stated I do not want her medicated unnecessarily. I’ve read bits and pieces about the effects and I’m also a strong believer of not putting meds in my kids. (Unless truly needed) kids dad took them to his house (I’ve said not to due to allergies, pet, dust) and he medicated her before going. I’ve taken advice from her doctor who has said meds for a flair but wouldn’t recommend giving unnecessarily, and to keep away from places that could cause a flair where possible (I take that as unavoidable situations I.e the pollen factor and dust) . Weather was wet that morning but dry in the afternoon they went to his am and soft play indoors pm....am I wrong to be furious he did this when I’ve made it utterly clear he is not to take her to his or medicate her. To add we had cats until her allergy was diagnosed, I rehomed for her benefit) I’ve never medicated for allergies as we do not need to with preventative measures.