Just wanted to share how much better I feel since I finally cut a very toxic person out of my life!
Annoyed at myself for putting up with her crap for so long tbh - but no point dwelling on it too much I suppose!
She needed to be number 1 in my life, was extremely jealous of me having any other friends - had me afraid to post on social media as if I was out doing anything with anyone else she would be like - "thanks for the invite"... on any get together she would try take me away from the main event for a one on one chat - had her drunk and in tears at a very dear friends wedding one time telling me about how shit of a mate I am - at the same event she told my partner that we our relationship was far too serious and we needed to slow it down a bit and that I was not ready for something so intense (at 30 years old) then told me I should take a break from him!
You'd think that would be the moment I decided to dump her - but no she somehow got back in my life after that - caused drama about not being involved in my wedding, basically begged me to let her be bridesmaid (I didn't cave) - I ended up having a secret hen party and had to ask all the guests to not post about it on instagram in case she saw!
The final straw was when she couldn't be bothered to even text me back when I let her know my Gran who I am extremely close with passed away - she ignored me and then text me 3days after the funeral saying "hope it wasn't too terrible, soz I I couldn't make it over your way I had plans!!
I just blocked her immediately from everything, instagram, whatsapp, her phone number, email !
I feel like a huge bloody weight has been lifted off me, she was making me so anxious - i don't know how I put up with this behaviour for 10 bloody years - I thought I was a stronger person than that!!