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Irrationally angry when hungry.

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incywincydoggy · 19/09/2019 21:14

Anyone else get irrationally angry when hungry?
Another night has been ruined tonight. Were due to go for a meal and film. Have been looking forward to this meal for weeks.
But we both half starved ourselves all day and ended up stroppy and nit picking at each other whilst getting ready.
Ended in a row and we cancelled our night out.
I seethed at home for a couple of hours getting increasingly pissed off. Then DH ordered a dominos and I stuffed my face. Now I’m happy as Larry. All content and full up and chilled out.
It’s got me thinking that a lot of our rows in the past have happened due to hunger and stroppiness.
I think 80% of our disagreements have been on a Friday night before ordering a takeaway, probably when we’ve both skipped lunch in preparation for a takeaway.
Why does being hungry make me so stroppy?

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Soola · 19/09/2019 21:17

My vegan daughter suffers with this. It’s called ‘Hangry’. Hungry and angry.

MittsMajuna · 19/09/2019 21:19

Low blood sugar, its not good for you.

Soola · 19/09/2019 21:21

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.health.com/nutrition/what-is-hangry%3famp=true

Ever notice how when your tummy is rumbling, you're more likely to lash out at unsuspecting loved ones or even innocent bystanders? This sudden, irrational rage is often referred to as "hanger" (a combo of hunger and anger) and experts say it is a very real thing.

"When we do not eat, blood sugar goes low," explains Deena Adimoolam, MD, an assistant professor in the Division of Endocrinology, Diabetes, and Bone Disease at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai.

When your blood sugar falls, the hormones cortisol and epinephrine are released in an attempt to raise it back to normal. But those hormones also happen to lead to irritability, which explains why you're so crabby when you skip breakfast.

Another hormone, called Neuropeptide Y, plays a role in hanger too, adds Dr. Adimoolam. Neuropeptide Y helps create a hungry feeling when your body needs more food—and it's also linked to aggression.

Researchers have documented the hangry phenomenon in relationships: A study from Ohio State University on married couples found that the lower the participants' blood sugar level, the angrier and more aggressive they felt toward their partners.

So when, exactly, does hanger kick in between meals? "It varies by every individual," says Dr. Adimoolam. "But the lower your blood sugar goes, the hangrier you are. It's our body's defense mechanism to get food ASAP." The tricky part is, hangry people tend crave cookies, pastries, chocolate, or candy, she says. These sugary snacks will raise your blood sugar quickly. But that spike inevitably leads to another crash—and you'll be acting like a crankpot all over again.

SudowoodoVoodoo · 19/09/2019 21:23

I get "hangry" children. The problem is, I'm often getting it around the same time and get less patient with them.

Feed and water them, and I stand a decent chance of discussing the problem rationally Grin

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 19/09/2019 21:23

I def suffer from hangry

When I was pregnant my Dsis was visiting and said she knew I was on the edge of hangry but did my dr know I turned into a wolverine when hungry Grin
I take her point...

incywincydoggy · 19/09/2019 21:24

Oh wow.
I don’t feel so alone now.
Must remember to snack before meals out or takeaways!

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Incandescentwithage · 19/09/2019 21:28

Have a snickers. Sorry couldnt resist

Delatron · 19/09/2019 21:29

I’m notorious for getting hangry (have low blood sugar too). DH finally learnt after many years and even takes snacks out with him to throw at me (like I’m a small child!).

heyjoeyitsestelle · 19/09/2019 21:56

My husband! I can tell just by looking at his face if she's hungry. Then as soon as he's eaten his whole demeanour changes.
I start a conversation sometimes and realise, then tell him we'll continue it after he's eaten haha.

lastqueenofscotland · 19/09/2019 21:59

I’m the most laidback person with the longest fuse, and literally never lose my temper, but if I let myself get really hungry i turn into a right bitch

HopefulFor2020 · 19/09/2019 22:22

I'm an awful person when I'm hungry. I actually become vile and quite cruel (but weirdly self aware so apologise after every comment). DP has a supply of snacks on him at all times now to throw at me in case I've run out of my own snacks.

madcatladyforever · 19/09/2019 22:25

Doesn't happen to me but my cat gets hangry and will nip me if not fed on time.

WitsEnding · 19/09/2019 22:26

I'm fairly horrible when dehydrated, too. Probably worse than when I'm hungry.

Dinosforall · 19/09/2019 22:26

I don't let my blood sugar go too low, otherwise I'd be divorced and unemployed.

RandomMess · 19/09/2019 22:30

DD is that you????

Always thought she'd grow out of it but hasn't happened yet!

itsbetterthanabox · 19/09/2019 22:38

Why are you skipping meals? That's clearly the issue. Both of you do it? That isn't normal behaviour.

LittleMissEngineer · 19/09/2019 23:33

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user1471504234 · 19/09/2019 23:38

I can be a complete monster when I’m hungry. But it’s at least partly psychological cos as soon as I have the very first bite of food I feel completely fine again. It wouldn’t be long enough for any change to my blood sugar to take place!

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