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Who else has had a shitter of a day?

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wheresmyhairytoe · 18/09/2019 18:16

Woke up this morning full of cold and with a sore throat. I have horre PMT and boobs so sore I can't touch them and knocking them is agony. Work was a nightmare, no time to think or go to the loo etc.

Got home and DS is in crisis as a boy at school flipped a table, while in crisis, and it hit DS on the back. I've had to get a friend to take DD to dance class as he's refusing to leave the house. No one has been fed and I haven't the energy to get up and start cooking tea.

Would IBU to stick my pjs on and say fuck it to the rest of the day?!

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JJBlinks · 18/09/2019 18:25

Days like yours call for pizza delivery /takeaway, pjs and wine......

wheresmyhairytoe · 18/09/2019 19:06

I've chucked some sausages, veg and potatoes in the oven and headed for the bath as DH walked in. Wine will be open shortly.

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Dontcarewhatimdoing · 18/09/2019 19:12

I thought I'd had a bad day but yours sounds worse. Definitely PJ's on, wine out, and sod anything else.

Whoopstheregomyinsides · 18/09/2019 19:13

Oh you poor thing. YANBU ti day stuff it and just cosy in

Sexnotgender · 18/09/2019 19:18

Shitter than shit.

Flew halfway round the world with small baby to be with MIL who was diagnosed with brain cancer last week. Supporting her through surgery and recovery.

Doing my very best not to snap and batter FIL over the head with something heavy as he’s being an utter dickhead as per usual.

Thought perhaps given the circumstances he’d be better but that was clearly wishful thinking.

wheresmyhairytoe · 18/09/2019 19:32

Mine doesn't seem so bad now sex

So sorry.

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Sexnotgender · 18/09/2019 19:36

It’s not a competition Flowers

I’m just drinking all the wine and trying to keep my mouth shut. FIL is a massive bully and MIL doesn’t need me making the situation worse.

SoyDora · 18/09/2019 19:38

Yes, absolute shit of a day here for various reasons. Stinking cold, all three children also ill (5, 4 and 8 months). £1500 I transferred from one bank acct to another has left the first account and failed to materialise in the other. And DH is away until Sunday at a wedding in the south of France which I really wanted to go to but couldn’t as it’s child free and I have no childcare for three children!
Reading back none of it is major, just feeling crappy.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 18/09/2019 19:40

Mines been lousy, I had a “get to know you” chat with a possible new therapist and spilled out far more then I intended to talk about which has left me in an odd headspace & some work I was promised now won’t happen (they’ve got crap family circumstances so it’s so unfair of my do be upset about it). That and money worries mean it’s been lousy but certainly not as bad as others so I’m going to give my head a wobble

OP & Sex sorry you’ve had such shit days Flowers

nespressowoo · 18/09/2019 20:07

Me too. Shitter of a day in work, two house viewings and a little cantankerous shit of a 3 yr old. No wine Sad

Yeahsurewhatever · 18/09/2019 20:13

Literally hate my new job, stayed late, missed something that was important to me.
Will be going in early and leaving late every day from now on it seems.
Feel trapped and too exhausted to look for a new job..or manage any of the other things going wrong in my life...

Not really that bad looking in the grand scheme of things, but I dread going in the next day from the moment I leave the office and the diet and stress eating aren't mixing well, so then I have to sulk about that too.

wheresmyhairytoe · 18/09/2019 20:29

DD now home from dance and in tears because she got criticsed by the teacher and she can't do a new move properly.

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Fudgecakes · 18/09/2019 21:40

Have an awful foreboding fear I'm developing 2 side by side abscesses....had one last year and ended up in A&E narrowly escaping surgery....these lumps I found today feel and look sickenigly similar 😩....dreading what tomorrow may bring. Also discovered nasty in growing toenail which I prodded and poked and made bleed which now hurts much more. Also have upper back pain and bleeding piles. Spent afternoon with my mum in tears cos my dad's dementia is worsening 😪. Now having a large 🍷. Hugs to all having a crap day x

marblesgoing · 19/09/2019 11:02

I didn't have a shitter of a day yesterday but had one last week like it which called for gin as soon as I got home from work and changed into pjs.
Tea that day consisted of if it's and I ate two sharing bars of chocolate while watching shite tv.

Had to be done.

BentlyandPalmers · 19/09/2019 11:04

How are you Fudgecakes?

S0CKS · 19/09/2019 12:27

I have a basket of fuck offs if you need to use some? Also good for fuck offs to mother bastard nature

FrenchFancie · 19/09/2019 17:09

I’ve had a shitter of a week if that can count?
DUncle given terminal prognosis for bowel cancer, transferred to hospice care
Dd admitted to hospital with massive asthma attack, scared my shitless as it’s the first time it’s been so bad as to need that
DNan (92!) diagnosed with malignant metastatic melanoma and given 6 months.
Of and my car battery died and the AA stiffed me on the cost of a new one.

Sexnotgender · 19/09/2019 17:23

I’m sorry FrenchFancie that’s properly shit Flowers

Fudgecakes · 19/09/2019 21:21

Flowers to FrenchFancie

Thanks for asking Bentley...lumps still there and sore but not escalated like the rampant mega lump I had last year which by this stage was the size of a satellite dish!! Been chucking tea tree oil and savlon on like no tomorrow!! Toenail still sore, back a bit better, piles settled and mum better for having a cry yesterday...so a better day, thanks. Hope everyone else has had a better day today/has a better day tomorrow x

plominoagain · 19/09/2019 21:32

Yep, absolute shitter of a day here .

Finished nights this morning , travelled an hour and a half home to take DD1 to school where she’s in a behavioural unit that is basically the last chance saloon before permanent exclusion , got back home , got into bed , closed my eyes and got a call from the unit an hour later to say she’s kicked off , been unbelievably rude , and left . I think she’s finally burned her boats , and it enrages me because everyone , the school , me , support worker , everyone , has bent over backwards to help her , and she just won’t help herself . Fuck knows what happens now . I can’t even speak to her right now .

So I’m sitting on the sofa with a bottle of Baileys and 33 episodes of Masterchef Australia . Fuck it .

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