I'm only mid-40's and am slim, always been naturally fairly toned (with a frantic exercise program before a beach holiday).
Obviously, am ageing, thighs are wobblier, tummy bit flabby but my upper arms look awful - like overnight.
I'm going to do toning exercises but the skin is saggy and wobbly / looks much older than I am, I don't like it and feel so self conscious about it.
I'm very pale - so that doesn't help.
What can I do that will really work and recoup any of my youth (please tell me it's not over?)

