So, it's my 60th this week. We do celebrate adult birthdays and big ones we tend to make a bit special, for example, we went abroad for a week to do Dhs hobby. Except I know nothing has been planned for me, no present either (he's been panic asking dd what I want) Dh was off this weekend and I thought he made have organised something. His db asked if we'd like to come down for the weekend. Ok, except it was for him to go to the match. I love my sil, and we did go out but she was clock watching and not really into it. But nice time. Went for a meal at night,again lovely. Here's my moan though. Next week Dh is going away hobbying with mates.(it's birding btw)This has been planned for months. In conversation last night he let slip that it's for one of his mates 60th. I didn't make a thing of it then, but jokingly said, "oh you can go away for xxxs birthday, but not mine!" Db and sil could see I was upset, but I made light of it. But I am upset, his trip next week has eaten up any spare cash we might have had for a treat, so I know nothing will magically appear. I don't have any friends who I can go away with. And I'm fucking OLD. But just thought I might get a bit of thoughtfulness from him. Sorry for the self indulgent moan, but I've not got anyone in RL I can show my disappointment to. Someone Pat me on my back and say "there there"